Sex og kvelertak

[AnonymBruker]

Hadde sex med en fyr i helga som tok flere korte kvelertak på meg under akten... Han klempte ganske hardt men da i «korte tak».. 

Og jeg digget det(!!) 

Dette er noe jeg aldri har prøvd før, så noen som vil dele sine historier med meg? 

Føler meg jo som den perverse dame iom at jeg liker noe så farlig/nedverdigende(..)

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[Gjest WayTooSerious]

Jeg trodde du mente bandet. Nå ble jeg skuffa! 

Endret 23. oktober 2017 av WayTooSerious
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[AnonymBruker]

Jeg digger når menn (jeg stoler på) gjør det.  Det er digg. 

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[AnonymBruker]

Akkurat nå, AnonymBruker skrev:

Jeg digger når menn (jeg stoler på) gjør det.  Det er digg. 

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Mye digg her ja. 

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[bortebra]

Med rett fyr og på rett måte, kan veldig mye fungere.

Jeg kan også like kvelertak, men må stole på vedkommende.

Men jeg husker jeg hadde en eks som hadde skjønt at jeg likte å bli dratt i håret, men det var så sykt påtatt når han gjorde det, og så halvhjerta at det bare blei forstyrrende lugging...  

[jabx]

Runketråd?

[AnonymBruker]

Ikke uvanlig det. Mange kvinner liker den dominerende delen av det, og ved å stoppe oksygen i noen sekunder blir sensasjonen og følelsen i underlivet enda sterkere sekundene etter man slipper opp og oksygenet og blodet får bruse fritt og i full fart igjen. 
Personlig elsker jeg det og ber alle mine partnere om å kvele meg, men når temaet har vært oppe blandt venninder reagerer de med sjokk og vantro og sier at de aldri hadde funnet seg i det eller klart å være opp i det, så det er viktig for menn å prøve seg fram før de går for full kvelning ved å foreksempel bare legge hånden lett rundt kragebeinet de første gangene og gradvis gå opp mot halsen og med mere kraft. Det er også viktig for de menn som vil prøve dette (eller kvinner som vil prøve på sine menn) å klemme fra siden av halsen, og aldri forfra av sikkerhetsmessige grunner og kvelnings/omkomningsfare. 

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[AnonymBruker]

Ja tidligere har jeg merket at jeg liker å bli dominert, mn aldri opplevd kveling før.. 

Ble overrasket over hvor mye jeg likte det.. 

ts

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[AnonymBruker]

Tenner også på det, men mannen er ikke med på det:(

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[AnonymBruker]

Det er skikkelig digg! 

Jeg elsker å bli kvelt og kvele han tilbake 

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[BiancaH96]

Jeg hadde ikke turt. Mye som kan gå gæærnt om man blir altfor revet med. 

[Gjest Alterego666]

Jeg liker både aktivt og passivt kvelertak. Bare et forsiktig press rundt halsen, ikke kveling rent teknisk. Liker også biting, partner kan gjerne ta godt i og etterlate merker.

[SlemUlv]

Noe jeg KUN gjør med noen jeg stoler 100% på. 

[draug 75]

Kveling, halstak eller hode for munn og neste, kun med noen som jeg kjenner. Aldri noe jeg gjorde i falvfylla med noen første gang og før jeg begynte å forstå kroppsspråk og signaler. det er nok ikke vanlig, men ikke komplett uvanlig. Det er farlig.

(Lugging: hvem som helst - fant det gjerne ut under det første kysset).

[AnonymBruker]

Dette er veldig, veldig, VELDIG farlig. Det finnes ingen trygg måte å gjøre dette på.

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[AnonymBruker]

 

http://www.telecomassociation.com/pubs/chokinggamereport/files/aea3.htm

For some time now, I have felt that the practices of suffocation and/or strangulation done in an erotic context (generically known as breath control play; more properly known as asphyxiophilia) were in fact far more dangerous than they are generally perceived to be. 

As a person with years of medical education and experience, I know of no way whatsoever that either suffocation or strangulation can be done in a way that does not intrinsically put the recipient at risk of cardiac arrest. (There are also numerous additional risks; more on them later.)

Furthermore, and my *biggest* concern, I know of no reliable way to determine when such a cardiac arrest has become imminent.

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I have discussed my concerns regarding breath control with well over a dozen SM-positive physicians, and with numerous other SM-positive health professionals, and all share my concerns. We have discussed how breath control might be done in a way that is not life-threatening, and come up blank. We have discussed how the risk might be significantly reduced, and come up blank. We have discussed how it might be determined that an arrest is imminent, and come up blank.

Indeed, so far not one (repeat, not one) single physician, nurse, paramedic, chiropractor, physiologist, or other person with substantial training in how a human body works has been willing to step forth and teach a form of breath control play that they are willing to assert is acceptably safe -- i.e., does not put the recipient at imminent, unpredictable risk of dying. I believe this fact makes a major statement.

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During my ambulance days, I responded to at least one call involving the death of a young teenage boy who died from autoerotic strangulation, and to several other calls where this was suspected but could not be confirmed. (Family members often "sanitize" such scenes before calling 911.) Additionally, I personally know two members of my local SM community who went to prison after their partners died during breath control play.

The primary danger of suffocation play is that it is not a condition that gets worse over time (regarding the heart, anyway, it does get worse over time regarding the brain). Rather, what happens is that the more the play is prolonged, the greater the odds that a cardiac arrest will occur. Sometimes even one minute of suffocation can cause this; sometimes even less.

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In addition to the primary danger of cardiac arrest, there is good evidence to document that there is a very real risk of cumulative brain damage if the practice is repeated often enough. In particular, laboratory studies of repeated brief interruption of blood flow to the brains of animals and studies of people with what's called "sleep apnea syndrome" (in which they stop breathing for up to two minutes while sleeping) document that cumulative brain damage does occur in such cases.

There are many documented additional dangers. These include, but are _not_ limited to: rupture of the windpipe, fracture of the larynx, damage to the blood vessels in the neck, dislodging a fatty plaque in a neck artery which then travels to the brain and causes a stroke, damage to the cervical spine, seizures, airway obstruction by the tongue, and aspiration of vomitus. Additionally, there are documented cases in which the recipient appeared to fully recover but was found dead several hours later.

The American Psychiatric Association estimates a death rate of one person per year per million of population -- thus about 250 deaths last year in the U.S. Law enforcement estimates go as much as four times higher. Most such deaths occur during solo play, however there are many documented cases of deaths that occurred during play with a partner. It should be noted that the presence of a partner does nothing to limit the primary danger, and does little or nothing to limit most of the secondary dangers

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Finally, as a CPR instructor myself, I want to caution that knowing CPR does little to make the risk of death from breath control play significantly smaller. While CPR can and should be done, understand that the probability of success is likely to be less than 10%

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I have noticed that, when people are educated regarding the severity and unpredictability of the risks, fewer and fewer choose to play in this area, and those who do continue tend to play less often. I also notice that, because of its severe and unpredictable risks, more and more SM party-givers are banning any form of breath control play at their events

 

 

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[AnonymBruker]

Har knust til to menn i nesen og gått pga det der. Helt sinnsykt at folk tar seg sånne "friheter uten å spørre og uten at man kjenner dem. Pornoskadde folk er helt psyk i hodet. 

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[AnonymBruker]

Neste artikkel fra Johns Hopkins Newsletter:

http://www.jhunewsletter.com/2010/11/11/a-peek-behind-the-curtain-the-basics-of-bdsm-and-breath-play-90395/

 This is definitely one of those things where pretty much even the slightest thing gone wrong can cause lasting damage to the brain or spine; in fact, the list of possible injuries is as long as the different types of breath-play

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There is literally no way in which to do this that does not pose some threat of serious injury. And ANYONE doing it should be aware of that.

This is not something to be done lightly, it requires extensive knowledge of human anatomy and significant self-control during sex to even consider the prospect. Still, that doesn’t make this safe.

Nothing is fail-safe. Most people only hear about the largely publicized deaths from autoerotic asphyxiation, like David Carradine’s. Yet every year hundreds of people think that they have found a safe way to autoerotic asphyxiate… and die. Many people are also arrested every year for accidentally killing their partner during suffocation play.

This is actually one of the very few areas of SM that even health professionals involved in the scene have said that there is no way to perform safely. Considering the variety of areas that SM covers, that says something (and not something good). In truth, there is no way to do breath-play without risking cardiac arrest or brain damage from lack of oxygen. And if you think that this is an area where having a partner limits the danger, then you’re wrong. It is in fact just as dangerous either way. The idea that being with a partner makes this safer is completely illogical. You can take as many safety precautions as you want and this can still potentially become life-threatening.

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Unconsciousness is not the problem. It is a symptom and you cannot know when unconsciousness hits until it does. Prolonged use of breath-play can cause permanent damage to the brain, destroying brain cells every time.  There is no way of knowing if your partner is about to go into cardiac arrest or if they are beginning to suffer brain damage from lack of oxygen.

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In the event of cardiac arrest, even with training, the likelihood of saving your partner with CPR is low. So, if they suffer a serious injury from your breath-play, even by the time help would arrive, it would be far too late to save them. Even as little as 15 seconds of pressure on the carotid artery can cause unconsciousness and any longer can induce serious injury.

 

 

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[regine22]

14 minutes ago, AnonymBruker said:

Dette er veldig, veldig, VELDIG farlig. Det finnes ingen trygg måte å gjøre dette på.

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Går ut fra du mener sexen? Lett kvelespill er mye mindre farlig enn vanlig sex.

[AnonymBruker]

8 minutes ago, regine22 said:

Går ut fra du mener sexen? Lett kvelespill er mye mindre farlig enn vanlig sex.

Nei, det er det ikke. Du aner ikke hva du utsetter deg og andre for. Kveling er uhyre farlig, og det finnes ingen måte du kan kontrollere det på. Les de to innleggene over for en rask forklaring fra en som både er ambulansearbeider og praktiserer BDSM. 

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