Livstips til 20-åring

[AnonymBruker]

Jeg er veldig glad for at jeg prioriterte tid med venner mens jeg kunne. I 20-årene kan du prioritere tid med venner og venner kan prioritere deg. Det er mye vanskeligere å treffe venner når alle har jobb og folk begynner å få barn. Nå har jeg familie og jobb og treffer venner 3-4 ganger i året. Hver gang vi treffes mimrer vi om morsomt vi hadde det for 15 år siden, haha. 

Jeg var også singel hele studietiden min. Jeg ble godt kjent med meg selv og jeg står mye stødigere både på jobb og i forholdet mitt. 

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[AnonymBruker]

Ikke ta opp kredittgjeld eller forbrukslån!! Det virker så enkelt når du tenker "ja det beløpet skal jeg jo lett klare å betale i måneden". Men tror meg, det er en dårlig ide.

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[AnonymBruker]

Gjør det som føles riktig for deg. 

Om du tar feil valg og ombestemmer deg, så ordner det seg som regel likevel. Både med studier og jobb. 
Oftest har det mer verdi at du viser at du KAN studere og fullføre noe, enn at du har studert "riktig studie". Og ingen kommer til å bry seg om hvis du har byttet underveis, så lenge du har fullført til slutt. 

Velg en jobb du trives med. Du skal tilbringe alt for mye tid på jobb til at det er verd å mistrives. 
Og passer ikke det du trodde, så finn noe annet du tror du heller vil trives med. 

Ta vare på de menneskene du møter som du trives godt med. Og bruk tid med dem. Mens de som tapper deg for energi, skal du forsøke å bruke minst mulig tid på. 
 

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[AnonymBruker]

AnonymBruker skrev (På 26.1.2025 den 23.39):

Hei! Jeg er en 20-år gammel jente. Jeg har ikke nære foreldre, og trenger akkurat nå noen gode livstips fra de med noen års fler erfaringer. 

Hva som helst blir tatt imot med åpne armer. 

Basic info: Studerer bachelor grad (andre året), bor i kollektiv og gruer meg til fremtiden. 

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Hold deg i fysisk aktivitet, både styrketrening og kondisjonstrening.

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[AnonymBruker]

Ladies and gentlemen of the class of '99
Wear sunscreen

If I could offer you only one tip for the future, sunscreen would be it
A long-term benefits of sunscreen have been proved by scientists
Whereas the rest of my advice has no basis more reliable
Than my own meandering experience, I will dispense this advice now

Enjoy the power and beauty of your youth, oh, never mind
You will not understand the power and beauty of your youth
Until they've faded, but trust me, in 20 years, you'll look back
At photos of yourself and recall in a way you can't grasp now
How much possibility lay before you and how fabulous you really looked
You are not as fat as you imagine

Don't worry about the future
Or worry, but know that worrying 
Is as effective as trying to solve an algebra equation by chewing Bubble gum
The real troubles in your life 
Are apt to be things that never crossed your worried mind
The kind that blindsides you at 4 p.m. on some idle Tuesday
Do one thing every day that scares you

Saying, don't be reckless with other people's hearts
Don't put up with people who are reckless with yours

Floss

Don't waste your time on jealousy
Sometimes you're ahead, sometimes you're behind
The race is long and in the end, it's only with yourself
Remember compliments you receive, forget the insults
If you succeed in doing this, tell me how
Keep your old love letters, throw away your old bank statements

Stretch

Don't feel guilty if you don't know what you want to do with your life
The most interesting people I know
Didn't know at 22 what they wanted to do with their lives
Some of the most interesting 40-year-olds I know still don't
Get plenty of calcium
Be kind to your knees
You'll miss them when they're gone

Maybe you'll marry, maybe you won't
Maybe you'll have children, maybe you won't
Maybe you'll divorce at 40, maybe you'll dance the 'Funky Chicken'
On your 75th wedding anniversary
Whatever you do, don't congratulate yourself too much
Or berate yourself either
Your choices are half chance, so are everybody else's

Enjoy your body, use it every way you can
Don't be afraid of it or what other people think of it
It's the greatest instrument you'll ever own
Dance, even if you have nowhere to do it but your own living room
Read the directions even if you don't follow them
Do not read beauty magazines, they will only make you feel ugly

Get to know your parents, you never know when they'll be gone for good
Be nice to your siblings, they're your best link to your past
And the people most likely to stick with you in the future

Understand that friends come and go
But a precious few, who should hold on

Work hard to bridge the gaps in geography and lifestyle
For as the older you get
The more you need the people you knew when you were young
Live in New York City once but leave before it makes you hard
Live in northern California once but leave before it makes you soft

Travel

Accept certain inalienable truths
Prices will rise, politicians will philander, you too, will get old
And when you do, you'll fantasize that when you were young
Prices were reasonable, politicians were noble
And children respected their elders

Respect your elders

Don't expect anyone else to support you
Maybe you have a trust fund, maybe you'll have a wealthy spouse
But you never know when either one might run out

Don't mess too much with your hair
Or by the time you're 40 it will look 85

Be careful whose advice you buy but be patient with those who supply it
Advice is a form of nostalgia, dispensing it is a way of fishing the past
From the disposal, wiping it off, painting over the ugly parts
And recycling it for more than it's worth

But trust me on the sunscreen

 

- Baz Luhrman

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[AnonymBruker]

Støtter innlegget om å skaffe en god uføreforsikring. Jeg er så bitter over at jeg ikke hadde det. Det var av uvitenhet og ikke fordi jeg aldri trodde jeg kunne bli syk.

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[AnonymBruker]

Få barn så tidlig som mulig. Det er så utrolig deilig å ennå være relativt ung når barna flytter ut. Jeg er 38 og har ennå masse liv foran meg. En jeg kjenner er 57 og er bitter fordi hun ikke har noe tid igjen før hun er for gammel.

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[Malursk]

Har du mulighet til å reise på utveksling i studiet? Min eldste sønn var i fire forskjellig land, på utveksling fra UIO. Det var en opplevelse for livet! Han var i forskjellige land, bla. to i Asia. Nå har han venner over hele verden!!