Å dominere en dominant kvinne

[AnonymBruker]

Inspirert av tråden om kvinner og menn som er dominante.

Jeg fant denne artikkelen i stripmagazine. Va tycks? Er det sant at ingen kvinnfolk egentlig vil være sjefen

DOMINATE A DOMINANT WOMAN

We often associate dominant women with whips, chains and a pitiful man groveling at their feet while licking a pair of vinyl boots. This certainly occurs with some regularity, but you may be surprised to learn that dominance doesn’t always translate into sadism. On the contrary, many dominant women play the superior role in relationships simply because their man hasn’t learned how to dominate them. She may be strong-willed, feisty and independent, but this doesn’t mean she doesn’t want to be ravished like any other female might. If you’re ready to take charge in the bedroom, the following tips will show you precisely how to sexually dominate a dominant woman.

Take the lead

Dominant women tend to be physically aggressive in the bedroom; these are the chicks who’ll throw you down on the bed and ride you like a champion. While this vision may appeal to most men, allowing this to happen on a regular basis puts you in a subservient role -- and that’ll carry over into other areas of your relationship. If you want to wear the pants, you’re going to have to show her you can. To dominate a dominant woman, the next time she pounces, turn the tables and flip her onto her back. Keep her firmly (but not painfully) pinned to the bed and let her writhe for a bit. As she struggles to regain the upper hand, calmly let her know you’re going to be in charge for the rest of the evening. Her panties will be soaked by the time you finish the sentence. Just be prepared to deliver the goods, as you’re bound to have one horny woman on your hands.

Maintain eye contact

Proper eye contact is extremely important when it comes to asserting dominance. A truly dominant man or woman can influence a less dominant person with the subtlest of glances. When two dominant people are vying for the role of leader, however, subtlety is no longer an option. Your vixen will try to dominate you by staring straight into your eyes and giving you a wicked grin that promises sexual submission on her terms. Most men, when faced with a woman like this, turn to jelly and happily let her do whatever she pleases. To dominate a dominant woman, however, it’s crucial you don’t fall for this move. Lower your eyelids slightly and stare back while returning that wicked little grin; this tells her she’s going to have to do much better than that if she wants to play Dom. It also tells her you’re capable of the same tricks, which will make her wonder what else you’ve got up your sleeve. While these thoughts are going through her mind, she’s likely to break eye contact and look away -- this is a good indication she’s open to being dominated.

Make her beg

Begging is the ultimate sign of submission, and it can be an incredibly sexy experience for both individuals. When trying to dominate a dominant woman, the idea is to show her how much she really wants you to dominate her, in spite of all those verbal denials she keeps making. The easiest way to accomplish this is via oral sex. Turn her on as you would any other woman, spending lots of quality time on her clitoris. When she reaches the point of moaning and thrashing, back off a bit. That’s right; slow down. Let your tongue explore another area for a few seconds, nibble her inner thigh, etc. Keep lavishing attention on her body, but avoid the clitoris at all costs. The mix of sexual frustration and sexual stimulation will make her want you a thousand percent more than she did when she thought orgasm was imminent. A dominant woman will likely demand you direct your attention back to her clitoris, which, you will of course do -- just as soon as she begs for it. You’ll probably have to insist more than once, but when she finally gives in, her orgasm is bound to be explosive.

Tell her what you’re going to do

Telling a dominant woman precisely how you’re going to dominate her is a guaranteed challenge. And dominant women are all about a challenge; it’s an invitation for her to try her best moves on you, and an opportunity for you to show her who’s really in charge. If you want a head start with dominating a dominant woman, use this tip over dinner or in the car on the way back to your place. She’ll be intrigued by your confidence and aroused by your promises. Once you’re in bed, tell her you’re going to take her from behind and make her scream your name all night long. Tell her you’re going to go down on her until she begs for orgasm. Tell her you’re going to dominate her and that she’s going to love every minute of it -- and then show her you’re a man of your word.

Guide her hands

Dominant women do what they want, when they want. She’s fully accustomed to grabbing a man and pulling him in for a long, deep kiss before she takes over completely. When dealing with women like this, it’s important you’re clear from the start regarding who is leading whom. This means even the kissing is done on your terms. If she slides her fingers through your hair and draws you near, dominate a dominant woman by taking hold of her hands and sliding them around your neck instead. This move tells her you’re happy to have her hands on you, but that she will not be using them to assert dominance. If she’s pawing at your body like she owns it, intercept her hands and guide her palms across her own body. The thrill of having control taken away, combined with a sexy mutual exploration of her own curves, will have her purring in no time.

turning the tables

While it’s true that some dominant women only enjoy sex when a man is groveling, there are plenty of dominant women out there who prefer what dominant men have to offer in the bedroom. These women like a good challenge, as long they’re respected in the process. Don’t let the feisty chicks intimidate you, and don’t assume they aren’t worth the effort; dominating a dominant woman can take sex to a whole new dimension.

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[Gjest Chin]

Vås.

[Gjest Filleproletiet]

Når noen har funnet "oppskriften" med detaljer som " se henne inn i øynene, stryk henne på vulva med en fjær" osv, da vet man at det bare er synseri og bullshit.

[Cathrine88]

Dominant women tend to be physically aggressive in the bedroom; these are the chicks who'll throw you down on the bed and ride you like a champion. While this vision may appeal to most men, allowing this to happen on a regular basis puts you in a subservient role -- and that'll carry over into other areas of your relationship. If you want to wear the pants, you're going to have to show her you can. To dominate a dominant woman, the next time she pounces, turn the tables and flip her onto her back. Keep her firmly (but not painfully) pinned to the bed and let her writhe for a bit. As she struggles to regain the upper hand, calmly let her know you're going to be in charge for the rest of the evening. Her panties will be soaked by the time you finish the sentence.

Menn som ofte lar dama ta kontrollen i senga mister sin naturlige rolle som mannen/sjefen i forholdet og alle damer blir sprengkåte bare en mann sier at han skal bestemme over dem?

Ja, dette lyste jo overhodet ikke av stereotypier og forenklinger.

[Heisenberg]

Menn som ofte lar dama ta kontrollen i senga mister sin naturlige rolle som mannen/sjefen i forholdet og alle damer blir sprengkåte bare en mann sier at han skal bestemme over dem?

Ja, dette lyste jo overhodet ikke av stereotypier og forenklinger.

Stereotyper er som regel basert på en forenklet virkeligheten. Ingen oppskrift vil fungere på alle men jeg tviler ikke på at denne oppskriften over vil funke på mange.

[AnitaB]

Dersom en av mine hadde noen gang overrasket med meg denne taktikken så ville jeg først og fremst vært relativt rasende (not pretty) også hadde seansen neppe resultert i en hyggelig eller tilfredsstillende opplevelse verken for ham eller for meg.

Jeg er veldig for å være fleksibel i et forhold slik at begge parter kan få utløp for sine interesser og fantasier, og ville i utgangspunktet vært villig til et rollebytte hvis min partner virkelig, virkelig ønsket dette selv om det i utgangspunktet er noe som ikke tenner meg. Det er med andre ord noe jeg gjør for å glede ham/henne, ikke fordi at jeg tennes spesielt av underkastelsen selv (men vil sikkert nyte situasjonen). Min dypeste glede får jeg gjennom dominans, ferdig med det.

Dersom taktikken beskrevet ovenfor hadde blitt tatt i bruk uten avtale så tror jeg nesten at forholdet hadde gått i vasken.

[Cathrine88]

Stereotyper er som regel basert på en forenklet virkeligheten. Ingen oppskrift vil fungere på alle men jeg tviler ikke på at denne oppskriften over vil funke på mange.

Joda, 'bruksanvisningen' funker helt sikkert på noen og mange liker å bytte roller. Men jeg reagerer som sagt på at menn som lar seg dominere i senga blir sett på som tøfler som lar dama overkjøre dem på alle plan. Den tankegangen begynner å bli temmelig utdatert.

[Koe]

Forfatterens definisjon av "dominante damer" virker mildt sagt tvilsom. Får på følelsen at alt utover ren melsekk havner i kategorien "dominant" for ham. La henne f.eks. for all del ikke ta initiativet til et kyss!: "She’s fully accustomed to grabbing a man and pulling him in for a long, deep kiss before she takes over completely." Gud forby, hvem vet hvor noe sånt kunne ende!

[Gjest Bandit]

Dersom en av mine hadde noen gang overrasket med meg denne taktikken så ville jeg først og fremst vært relativt rasende (not pretty) også hadde seansen neppe resultert i en hyggelig eller tilfredsstillende opplevelse verken for ham eller for meg.

Jeg er veldig for å være fleksibel i et forhold slik at begge parter kan få utløp for sine interesser og fantasier, og ville i utgangspunktet vært villig til et rollebytte hvis min partner virkelig, virkelig ønsket dette selv om det i utgangspunktet er noe som ikke tenner meg. Det er med andre ord noe jeg gjør for å glede ham/henne, ikke fordi at jeg tennes spesielt av underkastelsen selv (men vil sikkert nyte situasjonen). Min dypeste glede får jeg gjennom dominans, ferdig med det.

Dersom taktikken beskrevet ovenfor hadde blitt tatt i bruk uten avtale så tror jeg nesten at forholdet hadde gått i vasken.

Jeg tror din reaksjon klart hadde vært den vanligste. Min opplevelse med dette var at hun tok full kontroll første gang. Jeg skjønte det var det hun ville og at det var helt naturlig for henne. Jeg klarte selvsagt ikke å være så passiv som hun ønsket, men det var en god start. Tredje gangen bestemte jeg meg for å utfordre dette, og det ble ikke godt mottatt. Hun ble veldig hardhendt, sint og frustrert, og jeg skjønte det bare var å gi seg. Etter den omgangen hadde vi en lang og alvorlig samtale om dette, og hun var klar på at hun ikke klarte å bli dominert. Så i praksis fikk jeg enten godta at hun var den dominante, eller så fikk vi bare avslutte. Jeg valgte å fortsette, og ble siden introdusert til BDSM og annen moro. Og jeg var ikke en tøffel av den grunn, for å si det slik...

[AnonymBruker]

Forfatterens definisjon av "dominante damer" virker mildt sagt tvilsom. Får på følelsen at alt utover ren melsekk havner i kategorien "dominant" for ham. La henne f.eks. for all del ikke ta initiativet til et kyss!: "She’s fully accustomed to grabbing a man and pulling him in for a long, deep kiss before she takes over completely." Gud forby, hvem vet hvor noe sånt kunne ende!

Godt poeng.

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