Problem about child 's school

[Gjest poudre]

Hello,

Sorry to write in English. My Norwegian is not so good. Here is my situation. It will be quite long, sorry fir that.

I am a single mom with a daughter. i share 50-50 custody with my ex-husband. He is Norwegian. Next august my daughter is going to school. She has address with my ex. I and my ex can not agree on where she will go to school. We live in different towns.

He wants her to go to school near his place because he has his own house but I only rent an apartment. But if she goes to school there I will not be able to pick up her from school because I don't have driving license and I work in another town.

I asked him if she can goes to school in the town I live so I can pick up her because he has a car and his office is also in the town where I live. But he told me that his town is the best for her because he has his own house which is more stable than me and his family live there. He told me that I have to let her to school there and I have to pick up her by taking bus. He knows that it will be difficult for me but that is my problem not his and I have to figure it out myself. I don't know much about norwegian laws and rules. Now he is trying to tell me what I have to do.

I wonder what can I do with this? I am thinking about consulting the problem with a third party, maybe people from kommune or nav?? to help us find a good solution for my daughter, me and him. If anybody have anything to suggest me please do. I can read and understand norwegian. Thank you in advance

[Gjest Gjest]

Så lenge barnet er bostedsregistrert hos han, så går barnet på skole der. Det er ikke bare han som bestemmer det, kommunen bestemmer hvor barna skal gå, og forholder seg til hvor barna er bostedsregistrert.

Barnet har best av å gå på skole der det har adresse også av sosiale hensyn, klassekamerater og nettverk. Jeg vil si at din mann har rett.

Det lureste må jo være at du flytter til hans by, og tar sertifikat på bil.

Du kan jo forsøke megling via familiekontor, det vil også foregå i den byen barnet er bostedsregistrert. Men slik jeg ser det har din ex rett.

Håper dette ble forståelig for deg. Lykke til, det ordner seg helt sikkert.

[AnonymBruker]

When you have a 50/50 solution, your daughter will have a right for "skoleskyss" when she is staying with you. This way you will not have to take the bus, but she will get home to you.

But you have to send in an application to "fylkeskommunen" for that.

Your daughter lives with her father, and that's where she will go to school.

[Gjest poudre]

Thank you for your suggestion