Burde jeg fortsette?

[theshibby]

Hei!

Jeg har kontakt med ei som er interessert i meg, og som jeg er interessert i. Det går meget langsomt fremover. Det som er skrevet nedenfor beskriver min situasjon, og hvis noen har litt input hadde jeg vært veldig takknemlig. Beklager at det står på engelsk og er litt story-like, men det er den beste måten vet å uttrykke meg på:

The wind is blowing. It is late autumn and turning to winter, but the temperature is still good. Street lights glow distinctly as shadows form gently around the lit areas. TVs are turned on, showing news, movies and documentaries as I stroll down the street. Listening to a podcast, from 5by5 network, my favorite. Lots of podcasts. Lots of time to walk.

A sigh is released as I think about the girl I’m taken with. She’s beautiful, but not sure what else I am attracted to. Maybe I recognize her pain in a strange way. Her past is not the best, and the signs are easily seen when gazing into her eyes. Maybe it is the knight in shining armor that wants to come forward. Maybe there is a chance that I can relieve this pain and anguish.

It’s tearing me apart. Being always negative, struggling with getting a physical connection (haven’t even kissed yet) and opening up. Her mind is pre-occupied whenever we talk, no doubt on some issue she has, which she of course does not want to talk about. The life she is living is reactionary, where the surroundings are controlling her and not the other way around.

Sadness is a perfect description of her, for beneath the anger and fear, sadness is left. A sadness where one has lost hope and do not want to think anymore, live physically without any remorse which always creates more issues. I do not blame her, I wish to help.

How can I? One part of me wants to wait it out, the other one is clearly seeing the warning signs. Every attempt of creating insight is shut down. Certain messages are never responded to. Every day is a battle, but I am still prevailing.

Asked her out to a movie, where I first noticed the signs. After discussing a potential future of dating I was unsure of how to continue, mostly due to the warning signs. A small thread of belief exist, one that is there because she never says “yes” to a random stranger asking her out, I’m somewhat different.

From what I understand she is honest with me every time she speaks, and instead of telling lies she simply says nothing when she does not want to answer.

[AnonymBruker]

Er engelsk ditt morsmål? Det er en del feil i struktur i setnigene.

Tilbake til tema: denne teksten sier lite om situasjonen din. Møt henne flere ganger og se hva son skjer.

[womenwomen]

Hei!

Jeg har kontakt med ei som er interessert i meg, og som jeg er interessert i. Det går meget langsomt fremover. Det som er skrevet nedenfor beskriver min situasjon, og hvis noen har litt input hadde jeg vært veldig takknemlig. Beklager at det står på engelsk og er litt story-like, men det er den beste måten vet å uttrykke meg på:

The wind is blowing. It is late autumn and turning to winter, but the temperature is still good. Street lights glow distinctly as shadows form gently around the lit areas. TVs are turned on, showing news, movies and documentaries as I stroll down the street. Listening to a podcast, from 5by5 network, my favorite. Lots of podcasts. Lots of time to walk.

A sigh is released as I think about the girl I’m taken with. She’s beautiful, but not sure what else I am attracted to. Maybe I recognize her pain in a strange way. Her past is not the best, and the signs are easily seen when gazing into her eyes. Maybe it is the knight in shining armor that wants to come forward. Maybe there is a chance that I can relieve this pain and anguish.

It’s tearing me apart. Being always negative, struggling with getting a physical connection (haven’t even kissed yet) and opening up. Her mind is pre-occupied whenever we talk, no doubt on some issue she has, which she of course does not want to talk about. The life she is living is reactionary, where the surroundings are controlling her and not the other way around.

Sadness is a perfect description of her, for beneath the anger and fear, sadness is left. A sadness where one has lost hope and do not want to think anymore, live physically without any remorse which always creates more issues. I do not blame her, I wish to help.

How can I? One part of me wants to wait it out, the other one is clearly seeing the warning signs. Every attempt of creating insight is shut down. Certain messages are never responded to. Every day is a battle, but I am still prevailing.

Asked her out to a movie, where I first noticed the signs. After discussing a potential future of dating I was unsure of how to continue, mostly due to the warning signs. A small thread of belief exist, one that is there because she never says “yes” to a random stranger asking her out, I’m somewhat different.

From what I understand she is honest with me every time she speaks, and instead of telling lies she simply says nothing when she does not want to answer.

Treff henne mer og prøv å bli kjent med henne. Prøv å finn den infoen du trenger om henne.

Hva hun tenker om egen fremtid. Hva hun selv ønsker og kunne tenkt seg. Du aner ikke om hun er noe for deg eller om dere to kunne passe godt sammen - før du har blitt bedre kjent med henne. Etterhvert vil svaret komme av seg selv. Det er ganske normalt å ikke svare på allt en ukjent og nytt bekjentskap spør om...

Det tar TID å bli kjent. Man sereverer ikke allt på en gang om private ting , men litt og litt etterhvert som man blir bedre kjent. Liker du henne og er betatt av henne. Bør du treffe henne flere ganger og gå for henne. Alltså vis initiativ og interesse. Jobb og stå litt på ... for å komme nærmere henne. Dersom det er det du vil og er nysgjerrig på henne.

NOE er det tydeligvis mellom dere : )