What to do?

[Gjest Klaus]

Eh.. Thanks for the warning?

First of all - I really don't think that the shit turns him on.

Second of all - it's not illegal to be a pedophile unless you practise it. Even if he accidentally or on purpose wrote down these websites there is no evidence to press charges against him. He has nothing illegal on his computer and he immediately erased the note with the addresses. No one even knows if he ever saw the pages. And for that matter someone else could have saved the addresses on his computer. Many people (both friends and family) have access to it and borrow it from time to time.

But you tip the police, I'd rather see that people do one thing to much or one thing to less. But next time - don't warn the person first. If you warn them they will, of course, delete anything that can be used against them later.

It is illegal to share child porn, but he hasn't shared it and he says that he hasn't even seen the websites, there for he hasn't done anything illegal, according to himself.

And about death punishes - it is not your call, and I am really glad it isn't. Anyone can do a mistake and to be killed for it (or threatened to be killed) is not fare. Everyone deserves a chance of a fare trial before convicted.

I've already tipped the police about the websites and I think it is really unnecessary to tip them about my boyfriend since I really don't think he is a criminal. I'd rather see that they focus on the real criminals who actually does something illegal..

Du kan tydeligvis ikke mye om PCer. Selv om man sletter filene og historikken ligger de fortsatt der. Med riktige verktøy kan man spore opp filer som har blitt slettet for flere år siden. Og tro meg, han KOMMER TIL Å SLITE når de finner sporene etter barnepornoen.

Om typen din virkelig har ramlet inn på flere barnepornosider ved en "tilfeldighet", har han hatt skikkelig uflaks, men det virker veldig usannsynlig. Han kunne nok klart å snakke seg ut av at han var innom én barnepornoside ved en tilfeldighet, men ikke pokker om han slipper unna flere sider. Politiet er ikke dumme.

Du må nok belage deg på å ikke se typen din på noen år, men for meg virker det ikke som han er verdt å ta vare på, pedofile er sjeldent det.

[AnonymBruker]

9 year old girls don't have pubic hair, right? I didn't see that the first time I visited the websites, but they all have pubic hair.

He had a document with two address containing "teen" and two addresses to normal websites. Please read the last message I wrote.

He has nothing containing child porn on the computer and he never had any either.

After visiting these websites a second time I don't even believe that the girls are under aged. I am just really unused to porn and I never in my imagination even thought that so called "teen porn" was popular.

I don't think that you would call it child porn if you actually saw the websites. At the first sight they look really young with hello kitty clothing and stuff, but when you look closer/click on they look much, much older. Older than me actually.

I know that you can recreate most things on a computer. What I'm saying is that he has nothing to hide. The only thing that is suspicious is that the girls on the addresses he wrote down look young, but I don't think they are any more.

I don't understand why you are attacking me actually.. I haven't done anything wrong. If it turns out my boyfriend is a pedophile I surely don't hope people will attack me. It is nothing I will ever support.

Please read what I am actually writing, not what you want to read. It feels like you are a closed mind who is set on the fact that no such mistakes can be done.

The biggest mistake is made by me, who assumed that a girl in hello kitty gown is automatically under aged. If you google "teen porn" you will see exactly the things I've seen on the websites.

[Gjest Klaus]

9 year old girls don't have pubic hair, right? I didn't see that the first time I visited the websites, but they all have pubic hair.

He had a document with two address containing "teen" and two addresses to normal websites. Please read the last message I wrote.

He has nothing containing child porn on the computer and he never had any either.

After visiting these websites a second time I don't even believe that the girls are under aged. I am just really unused to porn and I never in my imagination even thought that so called "teen porn" was popular.

I don't think that you would call it child porn if you actually saw the websites. At the first sight they look really young with hello kitty clothing and stuff, but when you look closer/click on they look much, much older. Older than me actually.

I know that you can recreate most things on a computer. What I'm saying is that he has nothing to hide. The only thing that is suspicious is that the girls on the addresses he wrote down look young, but I don't think they are any more.

I don't understand why you are attacking me actually.. I haven't done anything wrong. If it turns out my boyfriend is a pedophile I surely don't hope people will attack me. It is nothing I will ever support.

Please read what I am actually writing, not what you want to read. It feels like you are a closed mind who is set on the fact that no such mistakes can be done.

The biggest mistake is made by me, who assumed that a girl in hello kitty gown is automatically under aged. If you google "teen porn" you will see exactly the things I've seen on the websites.

Jeg angriper ikke deg i det hele tatt, jeg beklager hvis du føler det slik. Og jeg tror på deg når du sier at disse jentene ser eldre ut nå (selv om du skrev noe helt annet i din første post).

MEN, for å være helt sikre på at vi ikke har en pedofil på frifot her, så er det eneste riktige å gjøre nå å få PDMT (Politiets data- og materielltjeneste) til å konfiskere PCen til typen din for å ta grundige analyser.

Vi får håpe at det kun er 18 år gamle jenter som tilfeldigvis ser unge ut, men dersom det viser seg å være barneporno håper jeg han for lovens strengeste straff.

[Monica1968]

Vi får håpe at det kun er 18 år gamle jenter som tilfeldigvis ser unge ut, men dersom det viser seg å være barneporno håper jeg han for lovens strengeste straff.

Vil det endre utfallet av en eventuell straffesak mot TS`s samboer, da? Sist jeg sjekket var barneporno definert som porno der "En eller flere av deltakerne er og/eller fremstår som de er under 18 år". Fremstår disse jentene som om de er mindreårige, er pornoen dermed illegal uansett, så vidt jeg kan skjønne?

[AnonymBruker]

Jeg angriper ikke deg i det hele tatt, jeg beklager hvis du føler det slik. Og jeg tror på deg når du sier at disse jentene ser eldre ut nå (selv om du skrev noe helt annet i din første post).

MEN, for å være helt sikre på at vi ikke har en pedofil på frifot her, så er det eneste riktige å gjøre nå å få PDMT (Politiets data- og materielltjeneste) til å konfiskere PCen til typen din for å ta grundige analyser.

Vi får håpe at det kun er 18 år gamle jenter som tilfeldigvis ser unge ut, men dersom det viser seg å være barneporno håper jeg han for lovens strengeste straff.

You're ruining my life, just so we're clear about that. I came here for support, and I've already tipped the police about the websites.

I've been suicidal for years and the only support I've had is my boyfriend. If the police would come here and accuse him for something he hasn't done because of me.. I'm not sure I can take it.

Since you wrote those things I've been crying non stop, being afraid I've ruined the life of the person I cherish most in the entire world. I've never been so scared in my entire life. The worst thing is that I cannot tell him, because I feel like I've let him down.

He is innocent, end of story. I can assure you that if I ever find any child porn on his computer, it doesn't matter if he's been my only support. Child porn is disgusting.

The focus should be the people who shares the porn and the molesters, not the people who accidentally saw one thing or another or have an idiot of a girlfriend who has a tendency to exaggerate everything..

I feel so, so, so, oh so stupid for writing this here. I never in my wildest fantasies imagined that someone would actually do this to me.

I hope you realise what you're doing.

[Gjest Klaus]

Vil det endre utfallet av en eventuell straffesak mot TS`s samboer, da? Sist jeg sjekket var barneporno definert som porno der "En eller flere av deltakerne er og/eller fremstår som de er under 18 år". Fremstår disse jentene som om de er mindreårige, er pornoen dermed illegal uansett, så vidt jeg kan skjønne?

Det vet jeg ikke noe om, men det kan godt hende. Uansett er også "teen porn" barneporno så lenge de er under 18.

You're ruining my life, just so we're clear about that. I came here for support, and I've already tipped the police about the websites.

I've been suicidal for years and the only support I've had is my boyfriend. If the police would come here and accuse him for something he hasn't done because of me.. I'm not sure I can take it.

Since you wrote those things I've been crying non stop, being afraid I've ruined the life of the person I cherish most in the entire world. I've never been so scared in my entire life. The worst thing is that I cannot tell him, because I feel like I've let him down.

He is innocent, end of story. I can assure you that if I ever find any child porn on his computer, it doesn't matter if he's been my only support. Child porn is disgusting.

The focus should be the people who shares the porn and the molesters, not the people who accidentally saw one thing or another or have an idiot of a girlfriend who has a tendency to exaggerate everything..

I feel so, so, so, oh so stupid for writing this here. I never in my wildest fantasies imagined that someone would actually do this to me.

I hope you realise what you're doing.

Hvordan kan jeg gjøre det? Nå overdriver du noe vanvittig, det eneste jeg har gjort er å delta i en tråd som du selv har startet og der du selv har anklaget typen din for å være pedofil. Alt jeg vil er å stoppe barneporno til enhver pris, enkelt og greit. Hvem vil vel ikke det?

Det er trist å høre at du har hatt det tøft, og jeg føler med deg, tro meg. Dersom det ikke er barneporno han har sett på har du jo absolutt ingenting å frykte, men du er vel enig i at folk som har sett på barneporno bør straffes?

[Gjest Klaus]

Og jeg har forresten ikke kontaktet politiet, jeg kom aldri så langt. Men jeg håper dere får ordnet opp i dette på en skikkelig måte.

Neste gang bør du tenke deg GODT om før du poster noe, fordi å anklage noen uskyldige for pedofili (selvom du tok det tilbake senere) er veldig alvorlig. Det skulle ikke forundre meg om noen andre her på forumet har ringt politiet, fordi her i Norge er det NULLTOLERANSE for slikt!

[AnonymBruker]

Believe me, I've learned my lesson! I will never - and I mean never - do something like this again. This is the first time I've come across something like this, and there for my first time to handle it.. I didn't handle it well. Next time I am suspicious I will call the police, not Kvinneguiden..

[Gjest Klaus]

We live and learn

[AnonymBruker]

I guess we do!!

Again, I'm sorry for being so confused and hung up on stuff.. And thank you so much for writing to me. I think I needed this lesson.