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Unskylld meg, norsk mit er ikke bra ennå.

This is very technical, so I do not wish to rely on my very basic language skills.

I currently live in England where I have escaped an abusive marriage. The abuse I received was psychological and emotional, not physical in the strictest sense. Although the abuse featured as a reason for the divorce, the abuse my children and myself received did not feature at all in the battle for custody/residence of the children. I received custody/residence, but the children visited their father fortnightly and half of school holidays. (Legally, I am not allowed to remove the children from England for more than 30 days.)

Unsurprisingly, the mental manipulation continues and I sought help from a high-profile child protection society here in England - who basically said "yes, the children are being abused, but no, we can't help you." If the children came home black and blue with bruises, they would be removed instantly, but if they come home having been told all weekend that "Mummy is evil", that is okay somehow. (No, I'm not exaggerating!)

I have recently been back to court (he wanted residence) and though the person who saw us agreed that his behaviour was rather atrocious, it did not "cross the line" into actual abuse. Hence, the children still have frequent contact with this abusive man (though they now can choose not to go for any visit, but they rarely do this because their father is also a lot of fun...)

I have heard that Norway is very sympathetic regarding domestic abuse and wondered if there are any avenues there whereby I may at last truly escape my abuser WITH my children...

Any help is appreciated.

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