does she need help......

[Gjest Gjest_guest_*]

my exgirlfriend has been abused sexually in her childhood and since she act like a ..... sleeping around with everybody ,ugly or not,drinking enormously,without notice it ,acting like its normal .... she lost all kind of dignity.i try to let her know about it and try to help her but she prefer to hide to herself the truth ...i think just that it s a waste(she could do so much better) and feel sad about it

[Gjest StockDama]

you cant help someone who refuses to take it

[Gjest Gjest_gjest_*]

i heard so bads comments and jokes on her at work and try to tell her to stay away from some of them,who want just to get laid .but she doesnt want to listen to me and now we are separated ,she s back again with them,hearing from them what she does ....maybe she will wake up one day and see which people want the best for her and care about her...but now i give up,no more energi...

[gompen]

This is a common reaction to sexual abuse. I don't think there's much you can do for her, she has to realize that her behaviour is destructive, before she can do anything about it. Just be there for her. Hopefully she will get help in the future, but she has to be ready for it, and only she can know when the time is right to do so.

[Gjest vimselot]

Kanskje dere er forskjellige, har ulike syn på saker og ting, bare... Jeg kjenner ingen av dere...

(nekter svare på engelsk, for hva gjør en som ikke kan lese norsk, på et forum i Norge...)

[Gjest Gjest_væren75_*]

Have you ever asked your x why she is acting like she does?

Like asked her in a non accusing way .

[Gjest Gjest]

Kanskje dere er forskjellige, har ulike syn på saker og ting, bare... Jeg kjenner ingen av dere...

(nekter svare på engelsk, for hva gjør en som ikke kan lese norsk, på et forum i Norge...)

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jer er litt flau å snakker norsk ,ikke så flink ,men skal jeg prøver neste gang ...

[Gjest Gjest]

Have you ever asked your x why she is acting like she does?

Like asked her in a non accusing way .

i tried lot of time especially at work where some bad jokes and rumors was on her back...but at the end she prefered to give up on me (easiest way) and know from what i heard ..(i changed of work,but still in touch with some of those people and from the same country so ...) she acting in the same way now,with the same unhealthy and bad people i have ever met(iam 35 year old).she always refused to have a talk about it or about anything else as well..so ...it was difficult for me.