er jeg psychopat

[gjest8]

iam not that good in norvegian so i will prefer to write in english,sorry . my exgirlfriend(one year together) came a lot of time in kg to talk about us, about our problems.so now is my turn.she is the girl who like to be the center of everything,the attention of the mens at work,talking loud with them ,flirting with them.(especially the good looking one).we us to work in the same compagny,then one day flirted with one of my workmate during a night out( my birthday party) then went home with him.then the next day i heard at work that she had sex with him(dixit him).so i asked her what happened that night...always "nothing" in answer, then after weeks recognized to kissed him and asked him to walk back her home, but without sex

.so started my suspicious on her,checking her mobile and computer ,trying to find the truth.then a lot of "stories "came out at work to me....like your girlfriend flirt with everybody ,she is a easy girl etc ... one day found a picture naked of her ex in my flat and telling me she forgot about it.so on and on ...she had a past of a party girl,she was the first to say it,treesome ,onenight stand ,etc.i should have break up with her at the beginning...but was already in love with her. one week after we did break up(she did it by sms when i was visiting my parents abroad) she was already dating someone else. then try to get her back....not always in the right way..like sending her messages when i was drunk and angry....but was so in love with her...then today heard that she flirting again with those same people at work.i spent night and days to think was wrong i had done but realized just today that she wasn t for me ,the girl that i wanted.thank you to let me speak in english and to listen what i have to say.tusen takk-

[Gjest gg]

I'm not really sure where you're going here? If you've realized that she wasn't for you after all; what's the problem?

[gjest8]

just she stop to blame me for everything,she is the one to blame.i gave or so much of me....for nothing.found out to late who she is..love is blind but time always bring out the truth....iam feel better now .

[CeeCee]

just she stop to blame me for everything,she is the one to blame.i gave or so much of me....for nothing.found out to late who she is..love is blind but time always bring out the truth....iam feel better now .

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So, she has a history of being a party girl.. Everyone's got a history, even you. You need to focus on the present. What's going on here and now. If she's been unfaithful to you ( and that with one you both work with!!!??), and is flirting etc. she doens't have any respect for you. If she want's to sleep around, she should've stayed single. You need to let her go.. Forget about her and move on. You are much better off without her!!!

PS: You are not a psychopath from what you're telling here.. But then again, I don't know you.

The best of luck to you!!

-CeeCee-

Endret 14. mai 2007 av CeeCee

[gjest8]

hi ceecee i dont think that she is been unfaithful with me .....exept at first of our date ,she dont remenber if she had sex with her ex after we did...that was her...never a real answer ...but today i have been talking with that guy,who work with her ,not with me...( i quitted the compagny...was tired of all the stories i was hearing).he told me that they had a dinner and watch a movie at his place,,nothing else.but that she s been flirting with him at work since the beginning( i found her that job) . but that he wasn t interested.so its comfirm all my doubt on her...endelig.its sad to hear it from the others.loved her,but now i hate her for all her lies ...sad end of story.thanks to you