Chat & Sex

[Gjest Martine]

Hei, sorry but I need writing in english (my Norwegian writing is more bad),

I live definitely in Moss from 3 months with an Norwegian man, I m 32 old, and arrive from France.

I love him we have a nice story born in chat and good sex too, but he make me agitated becouse him have a lot mails from ex girlfriend, sometime chat with her in "eros" and this can't be bad I can accept.

But in the last time he speack more about "can be nice if I meet her again" (I now that he have meet her when I was in Toulose last spring, but officially was only a dinner, but him not tell this to me first...) So , Now, I m a bit angry if him meet her again and I don't know my reaction if this appened again. Any here could help me, help me too think?

Takk

Martine

[Ann Forup]

hi there and wellcome to norway, im danish my self and lives with a man from norway

i don't think you have to be jalux at your boyfrind, but tell him that you love him that mush ( i guess you do ) that it hurt you when he still has contact to the x-girlfrind, I know how it is to move to another contry and live all at home, you are so mush easy to be hurt and angry over nothing, hope you to will sort it out

( hope you can read my english :D im not good at writing it )

[wondergirl]

It is only natural that you don't like him chatting with his ex girlfriend on the eros-chat. I think he is behaving badly towards you, how would he feel if you had that kind of contact with your ex? Tell him that it hurts you, you are NOT being unreasonable. He should respect your feelings. And if he says he has nothing to hide, then he would have no problems showing you what they talk about, right?

[Gjest Kåte]

If him is a seriøus man , must be show you the mails or if you are part of him life.. ask for passwords for use the same e-mail.

If you stay togheter need share all.

In other case ..secrets.. are problem mere og mere.

In Eros chat is very simple for a man find "easy sigle women" and have sex later. Mans in Norway could move up and down between towns just for have sex with a secret lover (normally use the words " ..I love my kone, I have good sex with her, I not want miss hun...but I need new feelings...If the woman believe in him is ekstreme sex). This type of man are nice "during the sex time" but can be arrive bad...

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[Arnie]

T'as vu, Martine - ca n'est pas que toi qui a un anglais avec ... un accent assez prononcé... (excusez-moi...)

Mais sèrieusement: Si tu as déménagé de France il y a qqs mois pour vivre avec lui, et qu'il est toujours en contact "chaude" avec son ex... il ne te mèrite pas.

Bonne chance...

(Et...aujourd'hui il ne fait pas beau ici à Toulouse - il pleut.)

[Gjest Martine]

Takk for reply

[Gjest Anonymous]

Dette må være noe av den dårligste engelsken jeg noensinne har lest...

Siden det opprinnelige innlegget er skrevet av en fransk person, er vel hun unnskyldt.

Men Hallo!!!!!

"If him is a seriøus man"

[Mogens]

Det der kunne du vel holdt for deg selv :evil: Positivt at personen i hvert fall har svart seriøst på innlegget!

Mogens

[Gjest Anonymous]

I think the best thing to do is: Talk to him and tell him how you feel. Make him understand that he hurts your feelings.

Maybe they really are only friends? It is possible to be only friends, even if they earlier have met for sex. And I think it should be ok in a good relationship to keep contact with friends, but then he needs to be totally open about it and you have to trust him 100%.

[Gjest Martine]

Yes probably you tell good. But due to the fact that he have few secret mail make my uncertain. Him know that I want know but not show/tell me nothing or only what he want show.

I suffer much this situation and don't think that I could not go away along for much between us if he doesn't tell to me all :cry:

Takk Martine

[Gjest Anonymous]

Martine, if you know what he talked about in the chat - he must have told you about it? Maybe he do not have any secrets about this? So maybe he will show you all other mail too if you ask him?

[Gjest Martine]

Nei Gjest

I can't ask him "..show me your mails.." Him know and If he have hart for me he understand! :evil:

If I don’t know about him/her spoke but I know...!

I have ask sometime of show me but after the discourse “slips” on other different belongingses or just open and close the mail very fast.

I agree with you to the fact that he has friends (girls or boys) and go out for drink or other this is correct and must be, but I am angry for the fact that he has try to cover what he do.

I agree that he that send and receive mails, but the manner that him do this creates me suspect and in a good relationship suspect don't go well for a love.

Martine

[Gjest Martine]

The story continues therefore, now I have my decision, I want to meet her too, for see what kind of relationship they have.

:x Martine