Is this accepted in Norway?

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Three can be a crowd. Your wife is often tired. Why are you not tired? I imagine that you dont do much around the house or with the kids. Because kids are exhausting. It affects most people's sex life. But the usual is that both parents are tired, because both parents take care of the kids. 

If you dont know this; stress produces hormones that block libido. This is why, under huge stress, people and especially women, can not "feel" their desire. It is trapped behind a wall. Things that can untrap this wall, can be:

- working out 

- relaxing

- going off hormonal birth control (it can sometimes block libido)

- talking to your spouse and feel understood

It is also possible to talk to the doctor to check for lack of vitamin D or iron deficiency, which can make people tired (and loose their lidibo). Vitamin D deficiency is very common in Norway, especially in winter or when there are rainy summers. Does you wife take vitamin supplements? 

I was once that wife who did not feel like it. I told my husband to wait for me, because I was under huge stress at the moment. He cound not wait, and ended up ending the relationship. I feel sad because sex was/is important to me, too. I just could not feel it for a while - and now it has come back.

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[AnonymBruker]

16 timer siden, AnonymBruker skrev:

In Norway men take their part in the household and with the kids so the wife isent so tired. Try clean, make dinner, lunch for the kids and follow the kids to their hobbyes. If the wife is less tired she will also have more energy for sex. Marriages ends if the man dont help out over time.

No, sex on the outside of the marriage is not accepted. In Norway people end their marriage because of it. 

And if you are talking about the lack of sex often its a giant turn-off. 

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Classic. Women blaming it all on the man instead of taking responsibilities herself.

Are you doing chores at home or just her? Its not acceptable to deny you sex just because you have kids. Its not all about her and her kids. She has 10 minutes a day to use on sex. Thats not to much to ask for

If this continues and you still go without sex dump her . This is typical female behaviour only thinking about themself when the child comes. End it if she dont improve

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[AnonymBruker]

41 minutter siden, AnonymBruker skrev:

She has 10 minutes a day to use on sex. Thats not to much to ask for

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It is not about time, but energy. 

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[AnonymBruker]

4 minutter siden, AnonymBruker skrev:

It is not about time, but energy. 

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Many women just lie on their back taking it from the front. That requires less energy then going to the toilet. Stop making excuses

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[Gjest Rødstrømpe]

6 timer siden, Mrs.Purdey skrev:

To help her out eith the kids and the house can be helpful. Sometimes you can buy her roses and make her a romantic dinner. 

If you've tryed this for a few months with no resoult maybe you can suggest her to try some herbs that is helpfull for the lack of sexual interest. I dont remember the name of these herbs, but i tryed i once and it was very effectful. 

To get sex elsewere would be the end for your family. Somehow she will find out and then she'll leave you. 

Noen liker absolutt roser og romantisk middag(og det er selvsagt hyggelig uansett) - men de fleste kvinner jeg kjenner(også de som mangler lyst i sitt forhold) vil faktisk knulles vettet av - bare ikke av en mann som slenger skittentøyet overalt og behandler kona som en hushjelp og aupair.

Så for å ta det inn med teskje til TS: norwegian women loves dirty sex, just not with a man who treats us like we` re the maid. Now clean your own shit, also the kids - and realize that there`s a bunch of norwegian men out there not only taking their part at home, but also f*****king their partners properly. That`s you`re competition - just mentioning it. 

Ålrait? 

[Gjest Rødstrømpe]

3 timer siden, AnonymBruker skrev:

Many women just lie on their back taking it from the front. That requires less energy then going to the toilet. Stop making excuses

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Said the worst lay ever.

[domimik]

5 timer siden, AnonymBruker skrev:

Many women just lie on their back taking it from the front. That requires less energy then going to the toilet. Stop making excuses

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Wow det høres sykt romantisk og sexy ut. Skjønner ikke hvorfor ikke dette gir økt lyst mer enn en gang i måneden (inkl mas)?

[AnonymBruker]

7 timer siden, AnonymBruker skrev:

Classic. Women blaming it all on the man instead of taking responsibilities herself.

Are you doing chores at home or just her? Its not acceptable to deny you sex just because you have kids. Its not all about her and her kids. She has 10 minutes a day to use on sex. Thats not to much to ask for

If this continues and you still go without sex dump her . This is typical female behaviour only thinking about themself when the child comes. End it if she dont improve

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Pig.

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[AnonymBruker]

No, cheating and sex or kissing with another woman when you already have a partner is not accepted. If you do then the other person will tell your wife as soon as she finds out you are in a relationship. And she will find out, because one night stands is not so normal, the women who sleeps with you will find your phone number and name and research a lot of personal information about you because she will consider to meet you again. But if she finds out you have a wife she will hate you and tell your wife in solidarity becaus here women dont want other women to be hurt by someone they love. 

If you contribute more with parenting and household acitivites your wife will have more energy. In Norway its 50/50 responsibility with the children, and you should do household cleaning without her having to ask you or do it herself every time.
Dont forget to compliment her and make her feel desired, without putting any sexual pressure on her as "payment" for complimenting her. Its important to still flirt together in a long term relationship as you did when you tried to get her interest before you became a couple. 

 

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[Frida.B]

På 27.9.2017 den 17.16, AnonymBruker skrev:

Classic. Women blaming it all on the man instead of taking responsibilities herself.

Are you doing chores at home or just her? Its not acceptable to deny you sex just because you have kids. Its not all about her and her kids. She has 10 minutes a day to use on sex. Thats not to much to ask for

If this continues and you still go without sex dump her . This is typical female behaviour only thinking about themself when the child comes. End it if she dont improve

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Hellooo??what are we, robots?

How can you even suggest something like this?Either you r a man( that doesnt get enough) or a woman who, again, doesnt get hers because she s alone and frustrated.

Care to choose?

[AnonymBruker]

23 timer siden, AnonymBruker skrev:

Many women just lie on their back taking it from the front. That requires less energy then going to the toilet. Stop making excuses

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I dont mean energy to perform, I mean energy to enjoy....

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[AnonymBruker]

https://www.gottman.com/blog/3-reasons-stress-is-affecting-your-sex-drive-and-what-to-do-about-it/

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